Embrace your gifts

 Embrace what you have......

 For a very long time I tried to ignore my gifts. I refused to embrace anything that had to do with my visions spirits and otherwise. I did not want these so called gifts and I figured if I just ignored any and everything that they would just stop, become weaker and all the noise and talking would just GO AWAY! 

Oh I couldn't have been more wrong! As you become older these gifts get stronger, they get bigger and become more apparent. There is no ignoring, that's impossible and even if you find a way to do this like I did, the spirits all know you have this gift. So you can ignore it all you want but that doesn't stop the noise. It won't stop the spirits from popping in at the most inappropriate time like when youre trying to sleep, or how about giving a speech for you finals, or at work sitting next to customers, or going to the bathroom or even taking a shower or how about when you're having sex. Picture having this amazing moment with your partner and you glance up and there is a spirit standing in the corner watching like its no big deal or sitting in the chair watching. Yes this has happened to me, all of it and more. Please understand they have nothing but time and determination to be heard. The more you fight it off the more it becomes bothersome. I promise you that it's not worth the fight you will lose or lose your mind in the process. Just embrace the gifts and always set boundaries. This is the only way you can live comfortably. 

This brings me to my next topic.....

 Allowing people in to your world

 Ok so I will confess here, I am not the easiest person to get along with and i know this. I sometimes have a shity attitude and to be 100% honest and transparent I don't like people. I would much rather spend my time alone with my animals. This sounds bad but I've had a extremely rough life. Starting at a very young age. Growing up in Detroit wasn't easy but it shaped me as a person. I am loyal so much so it's a flaw instead of a positive attribute. Loyalty means everything as does trust. Throughout this blog I'll expose some of the reasons I am the way I am. For now we'll touch on the subject of letting people into your world. 

 *NOTE* 

 ●I'm going to only address my husband with his street name or Initials as I will do other loved ones for privacy reasons. Most others that have been in then Out of my life don't need to be noted! However I will talk about situations that may have happened with others but I'll always use  "Y" for men and "X" for women  as the name.● 

 My husband was a skeptic and still clams to be such. We were together about 4 to 5 yrs before I truly started revealing the gifts I have. The funny thing is he ALSO has abilities that he won't embrace. After many years of challenging him and challenging his beliefs or non beliefs I should say. I've heard from his circle he talks very highly of the gifts I have! Imagine the shock and surprise when his friends told me such. It truly made my day.....no wait made my week to hear that he thought this way! 

 As I said above it took a long time for me to truly reveal what and who I am to him. I would ask him certain things to see how felt or I would say things to get his reaction but never fully showed him until a few years ago. To be completely honest he still hasn't seen all of me and i dont know that im able to share myself fully with anyone like that. This comes from a lifetime of misunderstandings, disbelief, disloyalty among other words I could use to describe my life. It's become a way to protect myself. Unfortunately human nature isn't so kind like we're made out to be. 

 So a word of advice and this is me being 100% transparent and honest. Be very careful who you reveal yourself to! People tend to be very selfish and really CANT understand you because they don't deal with everyday situations like a person with these abilities does. If you have a good friend that knows what you are and what you can do and they haven't hurt you or used you in any type of way 

CHERISH THEM DEARLY! 

 I didn't have anyone to lean on or talk to so my journey has been a challenging battle and after years and years of people stabbing you in the back, you become jaded. I only hope you never have to endure the type of hurt and pain I have. I wouldn't wish it on all the people who've caused me hurt combined! They say we people with abilities are more sensitive and thats why we are called "sensitives" but I don't think that's the case. I believe and it's only an opinion, that we are used more frequently then someone without these gifts. We are frequently paraded around as "freakshows" and used for people's own personal gain, this is done by parents family loved ones people we thought we could trust with our lives tend to be the biggest letdown of our life. So is it that we are more sensitive? Could it be that our world is so unjust and anything not in the spectrum of nornal is a gain, that most people are truly selfish by nature and they will do anything to be the it factor for a week?....

 I'll leave you to decide and comment

 I'm sure you know where my opinion lies.

I'll end this here with this quote......

We are all human (supposedly) we all bleed the same, we all make mistakes 

"WE ARE ALL HURTING AND HEALING IN SILENCE" 

Please consider this the next time you do something to hurt someone intentionally or not. 

MOST OF US CAN FIX IT, OR AT LEAST FIX HOW BADLY THEY FEEL AND ITS DONE WITH ONLY 8 LETTERS AND MINIMAL EFFORT.......

 I AM SORRY 

THIS SENTENCE GOES FURTHER THAN YOU THINK if it didn't do you think that...

SPIRITS WOULD BE COMING BACK TO SAY SUCH WORDS? 

 

(As always im Looking forward to input or questions)

xoxo💋

 

THIS IS ME.....

 (I was always told that the gifts I was born with are very special gifts only given to a very select few......and im always thinking in my head WELL WHO THE FUCK ASKED FOR THESE GIFTS?)

 So let me introduce myself,  My name is Raven I am a multi generational natural  born medium psychic empath healer, and i also ACTIVELY practice Voodoo HooDoo Witchcraft among other tools I use from my tool set. I have recently been zoning in on my telepathic abilities and its been challenging especially with 100s of dead people all talking at once and my ADD makes this all the more difficult. For some reason when people pass on they forget their manners here with their body and they are pushy and rude so my life becomes very challenging at times.

 I'm starting this blog because I always try my best to help others like myself. I can't even begin to tell you the types of stuff I've seen as a child teen and adult.  It got so bad people around me had me convinced I was bat shit crazy.......but IM NOT (not that way anyhow 😁).

So lets start with a lil story from when i was very young.......

Well call this,

*WALL CRAWLER*

 I remember the first time I seen a walk crawler ...I WAS SO SCARED! I was like maybe 4yrs old and this spirt was NOT very friendly IMAGINE THIS.....

 her head was hanging she had no eyes only deep black holes in her hanging head so black it was like nothing you'd ever seen, she was very dirty and her voice was almost as scary as she looked. For a small child it was beyond scary and of course no one would listen to me. So I was terrorized by this thing that had a hanging head and no eyes for months and months. Somehow at 4yrs old I knew it wasn't anything to be too worried about. So night after night it would scurry out from some dark corner or under the bed and crawl the walls or ceiling and make terrible noises hissing scratching or dragging noise. So night after night I would cry and run and tell my not so responsible parents, night after night I'd get walked back to bed and told it wasn't real go to sleep. To them it wasn't real but I knew it was real they just wouldn't listen to me.  So after about 4wks of this I started talking to this thing. If couse it would go into a rage and try to get a response⁷ from me As the days went on I started to see things about this spirt that I couldn't before. I knew it was a female and she died horribly at the hands of another. She had alot of pain so much pain trapped inside, and that's why she became this monster. So after some time I finally seen her full story and why she was presenting herself like she was. In the end at only 4yrs old in so many words,  i told her I was sorry humans failed her and she needs to move on. I then seen her in her true form a very beautiful dark haired pale skin girl that was truly and unjustly taken from the world all too soon. That was the last night I seen her she smiled as she sat at the end of my bed and then walked out the door and I can only assume that she finally moved on. I believe she wanted her story known and I try to tell her story as much as I can. I didn't personally know this beautiful girl who became a lost soul but I believe she knew I had a gift ,I believe she found me so she could get help or so I could help her. I truly hope she knows how much she helped me even at that that age. Honestly that was one of the most influential visitors I've ever had. That spirt was a pivotal point in my life yes I was young but I knew then I was different and these gifts could help people, and so I've been on this journey since!

 I've learned so much about myself and my gifts in the last few years so this blog is where I'll share insights and help others with anything I can from spells to my gifts and crafts. Feel free to send  questions or requests if I can help I will.

 As far as business goes......if you feel you need a one on one with me or you know someone that does, I'm here listening and waiting for you to reach out to me. 

 I'll end this here with this......

 People if you have a child teen friend etc coming to you about similar things LISTEN TO THEM you never really know what's going on especially in the darkness of their room! 

xoxo💋